tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16109839556911602192024-03-14T06:26:53.057-04:00The Open WindowJanethttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17983198916040154408noreply@blogger.comBlogger22125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1610983955691160219.post-11282344587856581952011-10-23T22:19:00.011-04:002011-10-24T22:29:28.952-04:00Spinning Yarns<div style="text-align: left;">When the first hints of autumn are in the air, it always leaves me feeling simultaneously (and incongruously) domestic and restless. It's pretty much the only time of year that I, the eternal home-body, long for travel and adventure. Something invigorating and enticing in the crispness of the air, the sharper colors of skies and clouds, the lengthening of shadows that accompanies the shortening of days.</div><div><div><br /></div><div>But it also puts my domestic side into high gear - baking, making soups, trying new recipes... looking to make the most comforting of comfort foods. It's also time to brush the dust off my knitting bag and pick up the projects that got shelved a few months ago when the thermometer started hovering around 100, and the thought of a lapful of wool seemed oppressive. Now as the temperatures finally, mercifully start to drop, that same cozy work in progress seems very inviting. </div><div><br /></div><div>Last weekend, the sunny skies and steady breezes invited me to even better things. </div><div><br /></div><div>I have some raw fleece that had just been waiting for the right day to be washed in preparation for spinning. So I set up my tubs of water and pulled out the bags of fleece - some Romney and some Icelandic (I love, love, love knitting with Icelandic wool, but have never spun with it before - adventure!)</div><div><br /></div><div>Now, raw wool looks nothing like those fluffy white sheep you see in nursery rhymes and pictures of The Good Shepherd. It's dirty and smelly and filled with heaven-knows-what that the sheep has picked up in the barnyards and pastures since its last shearing. After you get rid of lots of vegetation and the messiest locks of wool, you wind up with something like this:</div><div><br /></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 238); -webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "><img src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEirr6pnyyXO07jq_BhzzpzZhiGOBCfFjE74GFtCSJaoH2ajHjcd7F_YNPVLXMNm1-aQALxMSn-eVZHxdgeU7Y6tGWHXnwqXh9PhxfyxtN4j2RW-ypdCKfFhxYpfmKkU2Rel5XEYUtqsaJs/s320/fleece1.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5666880738417649490" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 320px; height: 172px; " /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 238); -webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "><br /></span></div><div>So you set to work with hot water, detergent and a good bit of patience (and I may love to work with Icelandic wool, but I swear this particular sheep provided some of the filthiest wool I've ever seen):</div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#0000ee;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#0000ee;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "><img src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj7RraTGlDrWhmDIbl4ul9wsk8KEvsy8Pr8eQQ6KqVtEprwc5wNk9Z58QxBElYlwTpgUqTFFQ-AAOZ_XuIdBiEG0McVjErsG4ipjB3lT2LJoig0vH460gZC1AJ2jonJ3T9p-7bQpzI5c8E/s320/fleece2.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5666880908200356066" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 320px; height: 186px; " /></span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#0000ee;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "><br /></span></span></div><div>After a few rounds of soaking in a series of dish soap laden baths, it's time to rinse:</div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#0000ee;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#0000ee;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0); "><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj0zm3IEwL2JxTKoK9mm7dLDclOOKZw_6WvDlBAE6KYU9vhkvHuSAv_vlrcWR514Srpdc6SPlm-FvpccR-4ydJOKyc9zhIqvD3W8Aqta-pYA0hMdvQddgWBohDYW6kxtqBxvQnEAAcugBw/s1600/DSC_0820.JPG" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"><img src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj0zm3IEwL2JxTKoK9mm7dLDclOOKZw_6WvDlBAE6KYU9vhkvHuSAv_vlrcWR514Srpdc6SPlm-FvpccR-4ydJOKyc9zhIqvD3W8Aqta-pYA0hMdvQddgWBohDYW6kxtqBxvQnEAAcugBw/s320/DSC_0820.JPG" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5666883634175783826" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 320px; height: 213px; " /></a></span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#0000ee;"><br /></span></div><div>That's looking a bit more like something I'd want to work with. (The wool on the left is from our dear Icelandic, it's got some grey in it; the wool is actually finally clean!)</div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#0000ee;"><br /></span></div><div>Time to put it out to dry. It dries very slowly....</div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#0000ee;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#0000ee;"><div style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0); "><br /></div><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhagqLUH6DqyRjhETZJn2Egw-1msq4LYuV2Tc-uaGH__5zG3Bp7oWQgblw45FIdVY8aExatFWkYya2hR7IDTEAmhykwPsppf7r_oQA1_iytVayTKmC2rBpwcvqRAlXVupoi5Q03J_zUmoI/s1600/fleece3.jpg" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0); " onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"><img src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhagqLUH6DqyRjhETZJn2Egw-1msq4LYuV2Tc-uaGH__5zG3Bp7oWQgblw45FIdVY8aExatFWkYya2hR7IDTEAmhykwPsppf7r_oQA1_iytVayTKmC2rBpwcvqRAlXVupoi5Q03J_zUmoI/s320/fleece3.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5666881163327933666" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 320px; height: 186px; " /></a><br /></span></div><div>You can see that the light was starting to fade at this point in the day, but still, quite a difference between the first photo of Romney wool, and the now clean fleece:</div></div><div><br /></div><div><div style="text-align: center; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 238); -webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "><img src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj9ZfiiU_yytHzfkWpQDkSxTuBzSYRZlylCJok_BNnO5Rr4-Ozf5YHqo0ashQY35qXRXwFJW8vSO7Ro-fP3yPIDcvKSzhlIZw0zRKVAw4AoIXcF4gCgiThwKUO9yruYalUh4w_zGO8Iccw/s320/DSC_0823.JPG" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5666883650698794818" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 320px; height: 213px; " /></span></div></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 238); -webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; ">But it's still not ready to be used. Now it's time to card the wool; it may be clean but it's still got its share of tangles to work out before it's going to be lovely to spin:</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiJ-DLDXitVvX5pc_04J8hbwdPzOFuxSd4ZqkP_0WzNj6H_VAEpMjnElerXxWAv7naomsTSvPV2ekc46ezlRDmLkyB2_uOFS9_ueJ0hK8FYPG-qnNW4ogAgNLDcIE3dOIfDA6wzUAqZ2Vw/s1600/DSC_0821.JPG" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"><img src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiJ-DLDXitVvX5pc_04J8hbwdPzOFuxSd4ZqkP_0WzNj6H_VAEpMjnElerXxWAv7naomsTSvPV2ekc46ezlRDmLkyB2_uOFS9_ueJ0hK8FYPG-qnNW4ogAgNLDcIE3dOIfDA6wzUAqZ2Vw/s320/DSC_0821.JPG" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5666883640914854722" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 320px; height: 213px; " /></a><div><br /></div></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; ">Now that's starting to look like that beautiful, fluffy, cloud-like wool we see in pictures:</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjhqcNDTA6y3uFSGsntLc7w3L0IFFNLQggKAEA17pflOZ3zAE6OSFsYRGpCLNrirX-JmUS5GDFC7jxDTzT4XQzi0vwS5W5j3Zite2n6D47hnkzBPJC3QBttFAlizcyiCugh5RTWdh6jroI/s1600/DSC_0822.JPG" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"><img src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjhqcNDTA6y3uFSGsntLc7w3L0IFFNLQggKAEA17pflOZ3zAE6OSFsYRGpCLNrirX-JmUS5GDFC7jxDTzT4XQzi0vwS5W5j3Zite2n6D47hnkzBPJC3QBttFAlizcyiCugh5RTWdh6jroI/s320/DSC_0822.JPG" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5666883645918467570" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 320px; height: 213px; " /></a><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiJ-DLDXitVvX5pc_04J8hbwdPzOFuxSd4ZqkP_0WzNj6H_VAEpMjnElerXxWAv7naomsTSvPV2ekc46ezlRDmLkyB2_uOFS9_ueJ0hK8FYPG-qnNW4ogAgNLDcIE3dOIfDA6wzUAqZ2Vw/s1600/DSC_0821.JPG" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"></a><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiJ-DLDXitVvX5pc_04J8hbwdPzOFuxSd4ZqkP_0WzNj6H_VAEpMjnElerXxWAv7naomsTSvPV2ekc46ezlRDmLkyB2_uOFS9_ueJ0hK8FYPG-qnNW4ogAgNLDcIE3dOIfDA6wzUAqZ2Vw/s1600/DSC_0821.JPG" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"></a></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "><br /></span></div><div>And it's finally ready to become something useful, or lovely, or better still both useful and lovely:</div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "><img src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi3r9cGUWBp0P7bcXP3m4Rox1sIiMrtG_dWOA7ytvqWdiIkXgaOOoV18-ImMBg_x_haauHqY2K-0sppAqt5aNlunmpb-rPlYm-WyMhB7PGjgwLRSGOZMo7_yC5ENBbD_2PCExje4gzrltw/s320/DSC_0824.JPG" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5666883654032576306" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 320px; height: 213px; " /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#0000ee;"><br /></span></div><div>As I went through a long day (or two) of working with this fleece, my mind kept drifting back to the biblical image of the Good Shepherd. </div><div><br /></div><div>The sheep he cares for and carries are not perfect, fluffy, clean, story-book sheep. They're dirty and muddy from wandering lost, or getting into muck of their own choosing. Their fleece is tangled from forays into brambles; it's full of bits and pieces of rubbish that's been picked up on the way. But still he loves his sheep and picks them up with as much joy as he would if they were a clean new lamb. </div><div><br /></div><div>And he has the patience to wash their wool, work through the matted tangles and twigs and briars, helping them to become both lovely and useful (although he loves them just the same when they are muddy, I think it delights him so to see them become the wonderful creations they were meant to be before they wandered off into the muck and briars). </div><div><br /></div><div>A good day to sort and wash, to card and spin, to pray and give thanks for a patient shepherd who can teach me even when I've chosen to take a day an just indulge in a favorite pleasure. Using my joy in the work of my hands to teach me His even greater joy in the work of His hands.</div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div>Janethttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17983198916040154408noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1610983955691160219.post-24583787883996956782010-08-04T20:00:00.009-04:002010-08-04T22:26:24.150-04:00The Dog Days of Summer...<div style="text-align: left;">It's still 101 degrees at 7:00 at night, so it's pretty much too hot to do anything more than sip ice tea and keep in the shade.</div><div><div><br /></div><div>But the flowers have been pretty this summer, and despite the heat we're getting a fair number of visitors to the garden out front.</div><div><br /></div><div>The bees love the coneflowers....</div><div><br /></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 238); -webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "><img src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj_BoHo8HC5s4X4fAHHLQSwCLKk_cKUP52QpeBlUyLwmqG1iRl0FfZXUETc-V8lfqX8uWSeKNUqcmXbCfbHUMHRzqhab9Bv3MXx0Y8M5-cs_7hZviILx7weh5mNV9js0LYoxtWEsw10mdI/s320/DSC_0413.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5501718062255428962" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 213px; height: 320px; " /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 238); -webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 238); -webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "><br /></span></div><div>So do the goldfinches (they like the seeds on the faded flowers); you can just see one in the top right of this photo. They are pretty shy so I could only get so close (there was a second one that flew away as I was trying to get this shot).</div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 238); -webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "><img src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhVAiuhPZINpdt0G7R784mzctAcVtd61kQfuVoeDgXkngh7nDbT9gO31aMa5wQEfYqawGJrc2FmLx8FkW1bRPhhqcNHkiEZZhgLadUN1T_tYCn1szWbdoesgWLW5lH-LWGQQgTg8Lrtapw/s320/DSC_0416.JPG" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5501717811688957746" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 320px; height: 257px; " /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 238); -webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "><br /></span></div><div><br /></div><div>The butterflies, not surprisingly, prefer the butterfly bushes. In the mornings and late afternoons we can often see a dozen or more, of all different varieties feasting on nectar.</div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div>This spectacular fellow is a Zebra Swallowtail in addition to his gorgeous stripes and long "tails" he has wonderfully intense spots of red and blue, right on the center of his back:</div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiYWsL8bzqoV6k80wY2yQFSpjs9DeHMzObTIkeowxZJKLvuQzwzq_2myypJnQbzNtYx5VCBZJF8jzfYLKQGEs0G7BeF72QYGfMLuiBghIra4eaanqyMeDCRhFR9WFaajJQ0oLYoQet-EFI/s1600/DSC_0412.JPG"><img src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiYWsL8bzqoV6k80wY2yQFSpjs9DeHMzObTIkeowxZJKLvuQzwzq_2myypJnQbzNtYx5VCBZJF8jzfYLKQGEs0G7BeF72QYGfMLuiBghIra4eaanqyMeDCRhFR9WFaajJQ0oLYoQet-EFI/s320/DSC_0412.JPG" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5501720691165341890" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 320px; height: 192px; " /></a><br /></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 238); -webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "><img src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjlGODeVRH7wc97vLg8iI5qY_3G9Rnkuimu8iymJIp0siuWax6rMopY87B-qPpF8DRV9KaOMZkXGSNkkYy0dWaUJ3JlpcIfabnyLwspzp2mOYe0DCYwbqHLwLy0AZETWLVs2b3QXUUJTc0/s200/butterfly.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5501746361834286066" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 184px; height: 200px; " /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 238); -webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "><br /></span></div><div><br /></div><div>And this one is (I think) a Red Spotted Purple (it almost looks like a Spicebush Swallowtail, but minus the tail, and it has hints of orange spots on its upper wings):</div><div><br /></div><div><div><br /></div><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgdjcYm7v-b0fRjwohof2cYmmvv07MsMjttHUYpCjT4sCP6G1uRM-Zz8ZN1kPLpP1qLEHjFqhD_S2Iy_UDtG6sYyyeLkTM2ir_NjvfAKFsqdr7M2i1CtxLwEH0gqRs1CyG_6lE7u5k93Kg/s1600/DSC_0419.JPG"><img src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgdjcYm7v-b0fRjwohof2cYmmvv07MsMjttHUYpCjT4sCP6G1uRM-Zz8ZN1kPLpP1qLEHjFqhD_S2Iy_UDtG6sYyyeLkTM2ir_NjvfAKFsqdr7M2i1CtxLwEH0gqRs1CyG_6lE7u5k93Kg/s320/DSC_0419.JPG" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5501711331378156642" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 266px; height: 320px; " /></a><br /><div>It's always fun to go out the front door and have all kinds of butterflies swirling around you as you step along the front walk. Very much a story-book feeling.</div></div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div>We do, have some less welcome (but no less impressive) visitors to our garden. Things like black widow spiders and cow killer ants (see below) make for some cautious weeding.</div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 238); -webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "><img src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEggc6AArerpeRKnk5D9ggtgtSqxFpHDTanXmxeBfXzpddmjPc1YXJ5-fsUfmpT8FSHksugX1wrbwH1h_XP6xUI7EA3zEyhA661DRmtfBDXyscXsz98jKxWquJmri69L74_9gNr_Mfj4icw/s200/100_0702.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5501726121906846226" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 186px; height: 200px; " /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 238); -webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "><br /></span></div><div> </div><div>But the beauty of the flowers and the swirl of butterflies are more than ample compensation from the more venomous visitors. On these hot, hot days, the colors and life in the garden are very welcome reminders that the discomfort of the temperature is well repaid in beauty.</div></div>Janethttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17983198916040154408noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1610983955691160219.post-79581773750473803932010-07-13T16:35:00.015-04:002010-07-14T15:30:52.629-04:00Valor is only misguided if you quit...<div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#999999;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:x-small;">It's that time of year, again: my annual bout of waxing lyrical about finding inspiration from the Tour de France.</span></span></div><div><br /></div><div>Sylvain Chavanel, one of my favorite riders, has spent the past decade building a reputation for misguided valor: he’s known for making crazy escapes (breaking away from the peleton) and going on his own for a hundred miles, often only to be caught again a few kilometers from the finish. “Pointless heroics”, was a common response, as he rarely got the pay-offs in the big races. But for him, the possibility of success was worth a hundred failed efforts. That's the kind of never-say-die attitude I'd like to emulate.<br /><br />Despite his boundless enthusiasm for the big gamble of a risky break-away, he also knew when he had to sacrifice his own interests for the good of the team. And he learned from experience; he learned when and how to make the escapes that might actually work - brashness coupled with experience. And this year he wound up getting it right. Twice. In one week. A stage victory and the Maillot Jaune. His victories made even sweeter by the fact that his teammate and friend, Jerome Pineau, earned the polka dot jersey of the Best Climber at the same time.<br /><br />Watching things unfold there was a lot to admire and inspire. Reaching for the impossible with audacity and tenacity; boundless hope guided and supported by hard earned experience led to success. It would have been easy to have given up on such seemingly fruitless efforts years earlier. But knowing the goal and keeping that in mind, instead of the spectre of failed efforts, was probably a good part of what led to success.<br /><br />My dad always says “There’s no such thing as can’t.” But “can’t” is an easy excuse some days. So I watch the tour, I watch the exploits of Chavanel, and Pineau, and I watch their joy in success. And I think about the projects and plans I have that seem impossible; and I know I just need to keep going, even if I fail 10 times, or 100 times. And like all the great riders, I need to know when to step back briefly from a goal for the sake of others; but stepping back from a goal doesn't mean losing sight of it.<br /><br />Not giving up, but growing in understanding and ability, so that one day that almost ridiculously foolish exhibit of heroic effort will bring the greatest result. And if you’re really lucky, may even bring that result even twice in the same week.</div></div>Janethttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17983198916040154408noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1610983955691160219.post-41356835468260663632010-05-14T09:04:00.003-04:002010-05-14T09:45:21.582-04:00The fine art of distraction...I'm telling myself that I'm just letting some thoughts germinate as I let my mind and efforts drift to everything except the work I need to be doing. I have three writing projects that I keep dancing around the edges of ("just a little more research, just a few more notes, then I'll get it all written up"), a book I need to finish reviewing, and a presentation coming up in two and half weeks which I haven't even started. Then there are the overflowing email "inboxes" - the personal one with reminders about all the family activities and welcome notes from friends; and the professional one with reminders of webinars I could attend, and new ideas that I can quickly link to and convince myself I'm learning things that will help with my projects, even if half the time I'm just distracting myself. And all the while I have the Giro d'Italia streaming on two live feeds (Gazetta TV has the best video, but Eurosport has an English language feed. Sheesh! Think about it - I can stream two video feeds at once and my laptop is not even flinching!)<div><br /></div><div>Thanks to the ever-growing efficiency of high speed internet, I have built the skill of Continuous Partial Attention to a highly evolved art form.</div><div><br /></div><div>Actually, I could blame parenting for my distractibility as much as I do the internet. One evening last week, I tried to keep track of everything I did. I couldn't manage it. </div><div><br /></div><div>A partial listing of an evening with the kids: altered daughter's graduation dress and did practice hair and make up, discussed Chinese characters, bounced around thoughts about national politics and the soccer World Cup, removed a splinter from a child, removed a tick from a dog, explained where some biblical events lined up with the political history of the time, illustrated details of the periodic table and subatomic particles, built with lego, made up another episode of a continuing story about nocturnal creatures in the rainforest in Borneo, talked about the origins of the Cultural Revolution, and made some popsicles. Oh, and got people to and from track, ballet and baseball practices.</div><div><br /></div><div>Ten years ago, I was still a perfectionist and the constant stream of tasks partially, or imperfectly done, would have driven me mad (in both senses of the word); now I usually just roll with it. This whirlwind is a short-lived one, and I love every bit of it (well, except maybe removing ticks from dogs - I could give that a pass). At some point along the way, you realize that a lot of the "distractions" in life, actually are Life; the things that matter go by in a blink of an eye; the most important conversations in a day might happen in that fifteen second time-slot between teaching someone how to put on eye makeup and how to factor an equation. </div><div><br /></div><div>Distraction is a fine art - you need to know when the distraction is really the main thing.</div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div>Janethttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17983198916040154408noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1610983955691160219.post-5780753358584658752010-04-20T21:03:00.003-04:002010-04-20T21:11:29.351-04:00Self Employment Has Its Privileges<div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;"><br /></span></div><div style="text-align: left;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style=" ;font-family:'times new roman', serif;font-size:medium;">I</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:'times new roman';"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"> was getting into a bit of a home office funk. Same old space every day, laundry and kitchen work vying for my attention as much as my desk work, and no one to bounce ideas around with. That last one is the worst; whether it be someone to share a great discovery with, or someone to challenge some of my less-than-bright ideas, the lack of colleagues can get a bit lonely.</span></span></div> <p style="margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px; font: 12.0px Helvetica; min-height: 14.0px"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:'times new roman';"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px"></span><br /></span></span></p> <p style="margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px; font: 12.0px Helvetica"><span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:'times new roman';"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">But then spring showed up and I remembered the other side of the home office. It’s a lot like “home school” - “home” is a nominal term, and if you do it right, home is where you spend the least amount of your time. So I’m enjoying working at outside tables at coffee shops, planning weekly jaunts to the </span></span><a href="http://www.willard.lib.in.us/about_willard_library/index.php"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:'times new roman';"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">Willard Library</span></span></a><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:'times new roman';"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">, and best of all, making time to run down to my alternate office:</span></span></span></p> <p style="margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px; font: 12.0px Helvetica; min-height: 14.0px"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:'times new roman';"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px"></span><br /></span></span></p><p style="margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px; font: 12.0px Helvetica; min-height: 14.0px"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:'times new roman';"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br /></span></span></p><p style="margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px; font: 12.0px Helvetica; min-height: 14.0px"><span class="Apple-style-span" style=" color: rgb(0, 0, 238); -webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "><img src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjiKCfXboAhyphenhyphen21Zr58ljA51YHyZnZZv3ugtKYK8iGL0amtJrzJEKfar4eQW3OJjSInsUL959vQwfksQbYEg1R9fU3SiGDOtFDIL-r1-fzKHkF8ou7bzgrRxLM4QBzNlhLvXX0meDTs-fc4/s320/DSCN2665.JPG" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5462390949947030082" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 320px; height: 240px; " /></span></p><p style="margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px; font: 12.0px Helvetica; min-height: 14.0px"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:'times new roman';"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br /></span></span></p> <p style="margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px; font: 12.0px Helvetica"><span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:'times new roman';"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">It gets windy by the river, but the view rocks, and I’m starting to remember why I like this home office gig.</span></span></span></p>Janethttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17983198916040154408noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1610983955691160219.post-11628152328333488782010-04-19T23:15:00.008-04:002010-04-20T21:11:57.724-04:00Are You a Good Witch or a Bad Witch?<p style="margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px; font: 12.0px Helvetica"><span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:'times new roman';"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">I’m feeling forced to doubt a </span></span><a href="http://runway.blogs.nytimes.com/2010/04/01/young-trendsetters-streak-their-hair-with-gray/"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:'times new roman';"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">recent article</span></span></a><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:'times new roman';"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"> which indicated that my silver locks are a leading edge fashion statement, </span></span></span></p> <p style="margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px; font: 12.0px Helvetica; min-height: 14.0px"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:'times new roman';"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px"></span><br /></span></span></p> <p style="margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px; font: 12.0px Helvetica"><span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:'times new roman';"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">I was over at the grade school today, and a little girl, about 5 or 6 years old, all blond hair and dimples, looked up at me and beamed, “You look like witch.” She seemed absolutely delighted with her observation. </span></span></span></p> <p style="margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px; font: 12.0px Helvetica; min-height: 14.0px"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:'times new roman';"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px"></span><br /></span></span></p> <p style="margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px; font: 12.0px Helvetica"><span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:'times new roman';"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">I started laughing, “Thank you!” </span></span></span></p> <p style="margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px; font: 12.0px Helvetica; min-height: 14.0px"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:'times new roman';"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px"></span><br /></span></span></p> <p style="margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px; font: 12.0px Helvetica"><span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:'times new roman';"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">She looked at me, still radiating infinite cheer, “It's because you have grey hair and it's long.” (and admittedly a little windblown after my drive with the car windows down). Out of the mouths of babes. </span></span></span></p><p style="margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px; font: 12.0px Helvetica"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:'times new roman';"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br /></span></span></p><p style="margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px; font: 12.0px Helvetica"><span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:'times new roman';"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">I guess the only thing left to debate is: am I “a good witch or a bad witch?” I guess that depends on whether we go with L Frank Baum’s Wizard of Oz, in which case I’m Glinda, for sure - just hand me my scepter and my throne. If we’re going with the post modern “Wicked” version of events, well, cue up “</span></span><a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=O5V9KwppMfs&feature=related"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:'times new roman';"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">Defying Gravity</span></span></a><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:'times new roman';"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">” because I’m more likely to be singing that than I am Glinda’s “</span></span><a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4LiynW5ok5I"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:'times new roman';"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">Popular</span></span></a><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:'times new roman';"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">” (we’ll save the latter for the little blond fashion consultant I met today).</span></span></span></p><p style="margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px; font: 12.0px Helvetica; min-height: 14.0px"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:'times new roman';"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px"></span></span></span></p><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:Helvetica, serif;font-size:100%;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:12px;"><br /></span></span></div>Janethttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17983198916040154408noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1610983955691160219.post-59457693525237695422010-02-12T16:57:00.002-05:002010-02-12T17:16:43.649-05:00I think that was a compliment...I was waiting to check out from youngest daughter's recent Physical Therapy session, when the woman behind me spoke up with a tone of great enthusiasm. "Oh, what beautiful hair!" I turned around and to my surprise, realized she meant me, and not my daughter (whose thick, black hair runs down to her waist - gorgeous!).<div><br /></div><div>She beamed at me, "If I ever let my hair go grey, I hope it is a beautiful silver like yours!" I thanked her, and it was pretty flattering to have someone so sincerely admiring my hair, but my brain was still stumbling over the words "grey" and "silver". What? </div><div><br /></div><div>It brought back memories of a day a couple of years ago when we were in NYC at the Museum of Natural History, and a woman came up to me and asked if she could take my picture. Turns out she had a website of women who let their hair go grey and "it's rare you see a woman so young with grey hair". </div><div><br /></div><div>As a matter of fact, I've been receiving lots of similar remarks lately - maybe because in most social situations, I'm probably the only woman in the room under the age of 80 who does not color her hair. Whenever I get those kinds compliments, it's both pleasing and disconcerting. It still doesn't register in my mind that I'm out of my 20s, let alone old enough to have grey (ahem, sorry, 'silver') hair. At any rate, one hopes they are compliments and not a gentle way of saying "get a clue, dear, and color your hair." If I ever do, I think I'll try being a red head; it would be quite a change, but my theory is it is still likely to get less of a reaction than going grey!</div>Janethttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17983198916040154408noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1610983955691160219.post-26980463188052648992010-02-03T14:39:00.009-05:002010-02-03T17:58:20.559-05:00Signs of the Season(s), Part 2...<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg57IcvjCv_0EIqeGgB7gqXLYwag7OJnbJq5GlXOM71bo6ERuIQZz5ZMogjgckteuuXKF8vdnEzTMBIzti_1DlOfhZrVNtu1mbBmTXGfmZA8a6Ei2ypJOb_kIELq3nFKjHUHvdWivi444Y/s1600-h/JanIndyIceArena.jpg"></a><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEggPrCuAtZLbET_9CD_-iDsxaetUUra2-TaeQglBPikNLg06729MjInVsBgtEG15_WA0O8WGoy0H0QJUUfCthfB3ATR5iCQy9SW8afQzPvGFZhy4Q4WVagWfjJ46aXqeRYZOie9cYzPeYE/s1600-h/yapingboot.jpg"><img style="float:left; margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 220px; height: 320px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEggPrCuAtZLbET_9CD_-iDsxaetUUra2-TaeQglBPikNLg06729MjInVsBgtEG15_WA0O8WGoy0H0QJUUfCthfB3ATR5iCQy9SW8afQzPvGFZhy4Q4WVagWfjJ46aXqeRYZOie9cYzPeYE/s320/yapingboot.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5434106773400353042" /></a>I can tell it's winter... Life has maintained some familiar patterns for the past several (many?) years and we're playing those scenes once again despite our change of venue....<div><br /></div><div>Per usual, winter found our youngest daughter visiting the orthopedist:</div><div><br /></div><div>Yep, that's a boot she's wearing. Something to do with taking a football game with her brothers and sisters just a little too seriously. Just a sprain this time, and some irritated tendons. But it is definitely a winter tradition for her to hurt her leg, specifically her left leg. I can only assume that now that protocol has been satisfied we're good for the next year. </div><div><br /></div><div>And as part of this annual tradition, injuries always coincide with two things - significant snow and Daddy being out of the country (always someplace warm and sunny). This protocol was also satisfied as Michael was off to Mexico City and we did have six inches of snow (which for this part of the country counts as "significant"). </div><div><br /></div><div>Fortunately we have great orthopedists and physical therapy very close to home, and YP is a quick healer and takes it all with good humor.</div><div><br /></div><div>We were also luck to get in a bit of winter fun earlier on - a visit to our favorite place to skate: the PanAm Plaza in Indianapolis. </div><div><br /></div><img src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjF05PD49NuDIV5AUZh1O_qZ0JVc74lCE10VnHd2ai1WMummitn68eWrnsk9seabh3_85nJqhXJF8EUdfi4e5V-oAAeldq94QfNybs6T0GvkX5Txonw5l318rB09klhcxClRDzFsw6eUJE/s320/groupatindyicearena.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5434109240385025634" style="float: right; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 10px; cursor: pointer; width: 320px; height: 262px; " /><div>We used to go there every Monday for lessons, and Michael used to walk down to skate during his lunch hours. The rink will be closing soon, so we were glad to have a farewell visit and to build a few more good memories there. We were met by our friend Mark, who we've know for more than 20 years - we've shared lot's of meals, bike rides, memorable conversations, and pink flamingo decorated lawns with him. It was great for all the kids to have some fun with Uncle Mark, and fun for the grown ups to be able to keep up with the kids on the rink. </div><div><br /></div><div>And for the record, yes I did skate. Can't do turns and jumps like I did 10 years ago (and even ten years ago, they were only little "baby" jumps), but it felt good to be on the ice.</div><div><br /></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 238); -webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "><img src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg57IcvjCv_0EIqeGgB7gqXLYwag7OJnbJq5GlXOM71bo6ERuIQZz5ZMogjgckteuuXKF8vdnEzTMBIzti_1DlOfhZrVNtu1mbBmTXGfmZA8a6Ei2ypJOb_kIELq3nFKjHUHvdWivi444Y/s200/JanIndyIceArena.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5434135338396006050" style="float: left; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 10px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; cursor: pointer; width: 126px; height: 200px; " /></span></div><div>Thinking back over these winter days, its not just the seasons of the year, but the seasons of life that are very evident. Our oldest is a lot closer to the age we were when we first met Mark than we are now. </div><div><br /></div><div>Then there is our oldest daughter - she's at that age where what's really critical is how you look and how you dress. So she's now very keen on flat ironing her hair. Now I get hair styles - I spent large chunks of time with a curling iron in my early teens - but those who know oldest daughter know that her hair naturally looks like its been flat ironed. No, that's not quite right; it looks like what people who flat iron their hair wish they could achieve but never quite can - perfect, straight, glossy hair. But her classmates flat iron, so she must too. I understand: it is the season.</div><div><br /></div><div>Part of me misses the season when my oldest son was small enough for me to be helping him on those first struggling steps the ice - much easier to navigate than the steps into adulthood. And I miss when the biggest fashion concerns for the girls were whether to wear sneakers or sparkly Mary Janes. And I'm grateful that youngest daughter is nursing a sprained ankle rather than a broken heart or struggling career. </div><div><br /></div><div>But part of me is very excited for all of them as they start making their way towards whatever amazing experiences are ahead of them as the approach adulthood at warp speed (at least it seems like "warp speed" to me). And in truth, I'm pretty excited about what's around the next bend for me too. Each season has its blend of the expected and the surprising, and I can't wait to see what the next seasons will hold. But for now, I'm enjoying where I am; enjoying every single minute of it.</div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div>Janethttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17983198916040154408noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1610983955691160219.post-3068178406698970182009-12-22T13:15:00.006-05:002009-12-22T13:32:19.731-05:00Signs of the Season...<div style="text-align: center;">Long time, no blog... And instead of looking for just the right words, today, I'm going to let the pictures speak for themselves.</div><div><div><br /></div><div>No matter where we are, there are definitely some things that stay the same this time of year...</div><div><br /></div></div><div><br /></div><div>Nutcracker always fills some busy weekends in early December... And is always a joy to watch.</div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjcfz7g1h-6IwcRXW0csYZeWVQ_NkZX1Lhjtvdwi7KbXSVWhnT6XVtcx2vsP1mRd0fLT3D-XiCbNjHZyyZtosyU0L622XQRpFx-2IAcFca7ukt-n_0PMkU8T7gheguoY9T7LP23So8heUc/s1600-h/yaping+nutcracker.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 240px; height: 320px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjcfz7g1h-6IwcRXW0csYZeWVQ_NkZX1Lhjtvdwi7KbXSVWhnT6XVtcx2vsP1mRd0fLT3D-XiCbNjHZyyZtosyU0L622XQRpFx-2IAcFca7ukt-n_0PMkU8T7gheguoY9T7LP23So8heUc/s320/yaping+nutcracker.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5418126421724373026" /></a> <div>K likes to be sure that the house is well lit...</div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div><img src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjoWGOcYJTOlJ2E2pbcIspC5BM6kAeCybfYQWmPmTrYGMOa0I3dlA_6GOgK8F3GgeYDoLqNysa8i9yaNPYUgyllJmyswRSDKgOD0nGm8TQM38tKy7MT0XFhalqrHlseHP_jUVvRytcAmZc/s320/Kevin+lights.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5418127052327381586" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 268px; height: 320px; " /><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div>And the annual Nativity Play at Church, this year K was St. Joseph, and SP was a sheep. (K was also Joseph 10 years ago, when we last lived in Indiana)</div><div><br /></div><div style="text-align: left;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 238); -webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "><br /></span></div><div style="text-align: left;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#0000EE;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "><img src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEij2IPog9PQB1ZA4LKFF3eh6ZRvcstAFpCGF2d5n6avnCOBIjsGRbxBhO9EMnV5FnFW-61unzzv8plCYmPWpq3fC1956DOv2cMZgniZyRctXYMpQ9xjPZLUTxriv4recdhqv9pfYH1GnaM/s320/Kevin+Sean+nativity+play.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5418128138783854018" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 238px; height: 320px; " /></span></span></div><div style="text-align: left;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#0000EE;"><br /></span></div><div style="text-align: left;">Then we have the endless string of December birthdays - mmm, more sugar!</div><div style="text-align: left;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#0000EE;"><br /></span></div><div style="text-align: left;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#0000EE;"><br /></span></div><div style="text-align: left;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#0000EE;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0); "><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgYYFEzuTSjakNInhcgY-4FvU5lLXEyHytRV3s2lorKP0N0NoUoUABDH09kgGMima01qC5ARK1mw62p7pnm8g0Zzg976MgTLDGsfY39AiZYWtMXgas9lYRYsyc2MwxwvyWr_731IkWWbgk/s1600-h/sofi+cake+2.jpg"><img src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgYYFEzuTSjakNInhcgY-4FvU5lLXEyHytRV3s2lorKP0N0NoUoUABDH09kgGMima01qC5ARK1mw62p7pnm8g0Zzg976MgTLDGsfY39AiZYWtMXgas9lYRYsyc2MwxwvyWr_731IkWWbgk/s320/sofi+cake+2.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5418128130135431058" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 320px; height: 270px; " /></a><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhHG0eac07K-naAvAgxWNZxfKkdPg1uMD1WMqv-UPQgz-FOsBm6apQ-viNK4iUqd6Aji8cGu4U45QPZmbiMOHeitYNYYCdO276C6lKl83QWYkU2IIgj7V_u53AIUSg2RbKqBcXJhvsA4hQ/s1600-h/Ian+birthday.jpg"><img src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhHG0eac07K-naAvAgxWNZxfKkdPg1uMD1WMqv-UPQgz-FOsBm6apQ-viNK4iUqd6Aji8cGu4U45QPZmbiMOHeitYNYYCdO276C6lKl83QWYkU2IIgj7V_u53AIUSg2RbKqBcXJhvsA4hQ/s320/Ian+birthday.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5418128122960924658" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 320px; height: 200px; " /></a></span></span></div><div style="text-align: left;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#0000EE;"><br /></span></div><div style="text-align: left;">And today, we got the tree up...</div><div style="text-align: left;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: left;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: left;"><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgfYnw59Y1f_NCTZto8Dsc4xa7CUe1SDvocZ69UwwpLbmuHhk3QbbV9y4xsvtubjqDSIVYdAUfYYOxWCc-JZREzaSiyhDklZ1HAxU9kBpOF4_NIU6Ei12nnGhP9cvt9ZLq5TzxGFvD1zRI/s1600-h/kids+tree.jpg"><img src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgfYnw59Y1f_NCTZto8Dsc4xa7CUe1SDvocZ69UwwpLbmuHhk3QbbV9y4xsvtubjqDSIVYdAUfYYOxWCc-JZREzaSiyhDklZ1HAxU9kBpOF4_NIU6Ei12nnGhP9cvt9ZLq5TzxGFvD1zRI/s320/kids+tree.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5418128133510901170" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 230px; height: 320px; " /></a><div style="text-align: left;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#0000EE;"><span class="Apple-style-span"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#000000;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="text-decoration: underline;"><br /></span></span></span></span></div></div><div style="text-align: left;">All is calm, all is bright....</div><div style="text-align: left;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: left;">Wishing you the Merriest of Christmases and a joy filled 2010!</div><div style="text-align: left;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: left;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: left;"><br /></div></div>Janethttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17983198916040154408noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1610983955691160219.post-64500408588406966022009-10-27T20:45:00.006-04:002009-10-27T21:06:59.956-04:00A parting gift.<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhf9LxZ-Z8gC-snLzSBd9vup-odDgxmT0ZRlgZzYAuKfjZ3IpxfHC_Nkh5hvXtFQRDRs3-oqX8oPhRH98ayxtVhDZUjBO6uU5jYnWP-qI_SnSVNlHy-kxvt5mN0Qx2oRK9IjfNBv-5IWjI/s1600-h/DSCN1534.JPG"></a><br />At our old house, there was a Japanese Maple which draped over our front entry. I had a love-hate relationship with that tree. Mainly love, but just a little hate every October. <div><br /></div><div>After it's final blaze of autumnal glory, it would drop its leaves on the front walk, and they would be tracked in by kids and dogs at a rate which outpaced the ability of any broom or rake to keep in check. Leaves in the front hall, leaves on the stairs, leaves working their way into the kitchen. It was mostly worth the annoyance though. It was a beautiful tree, arching perfectly over the front walk, right at the edge of the front porch. It shaded the west facing front door in summer, it provided glorious color in the fall, a perfect arc for hanging lights at Christmas, a frame for photos of little ones getting ready to trick or treat, or high school graduates in their new suits, a place where oldest and youngest sons would stretch out on their backs and look up at the leaves together. </div><div><br /></div><div>And it was a perfect access point to the garage roof for #2 son's climbing exploits. Sometimes for virtuous errands, like voluntary trips up to clean the gutters or to rescue a frisbee. Sometimes more questionable ones, like the day he climbed up there during a snow/ice storm (for a better vantage point in a snowball fight), then, at his older brother's prompting slid down from the peak of the roof. And spent the next couple of weeks on crutches.* There was a horizontal branch with the perfect balance of stiffness and spring that even I could not resist swinging on it occasionally. </div><div><br /></div><div>A lot of life happened on and around that tree. </div><div><br /></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 238); -webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "><img src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhf9LxZ-Z8gC-snLzSBd9vup-odDgxmT0ZRlgZzYAuKfjZ3IpxfHC_Nkh5hvXtFQRDRs3-oqX8oPhRH98ayxtVhDZUjBO6uU5jYnWP-qI_SnSVNlHy-kxvt5mN0Qx2oRK9IjfNBv-5IWjI/s200/DSCN1534.JPG" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5397450231349363058" style="float: right; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 10px; cursor: pointer; width: 200px; height: 150px; " /></span></div><div>When we were unpacking, I was moving the beautiful oak cradle my dad had made for us prior</div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 238); -webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "></span><div> to the birth of our oldest. resting in the cradle was a small cluster of leaves from that tree. Still green - they had dropped a bit early, as the movers hauled the cradle out. Perhaps a parting gift from the tree, since the kids couldn't track it's leaves into the new house, it sent a few along to say "goodbye" once more.</div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 238); -webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 238); -webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "></span><div><br /></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: x-small;">*proper sized crutches were luckily available because older brother had needed them a year or so earlier after the vine he was swinging on broke. But that's another story.</span></div>Janethttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17983198916040154408noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1610983955691160219.post-48405041309601628272009-10-27T20:21:00.006-04:002009-10-27T20:45:08.474-04:00So much "stuff", so little time.<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjn4R4tCcLAZHulr3v19TNoFOzCqJHUptTHf-1moMT_nhcQdzm1mzSgzNZclYkEEBlh4zpk2ntPysRy39vRG1mutkp0OnJBi06miieA634zjwnoBTdOOuMlpdnuj1_ddLZaoGCx-SwK-Ic/s1600-h/StAnthonyPadua-HolyPic.jpg"></a><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgGGf7OU3U35WucpLpO4axBuumh5m8Mk5-25k0T5yCgrTvUL4KsspdsxUif0hG4bYuqplbtvf13iZdUEXuvai_fpm4cBvnCvSPZ0Cdl65pqRVw5Aw7kjPoEYjnKHYlaqV91iVfCDYYkrhE/s1600-h/francisclare4.gif"><img style="float:left; margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 139px; height: 200px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgGGf7OU3U35WucpLpO4axBuumh5m8Mk5-25k0T5yCgrTvUL4KsspdsxUif0hG4bYuqplbtvf13iZdUEXuvai_fpm4cBvnCvSPZ0Cdl65pqRVw5Aw7kjPoEYjnKHYlaqV91iVfCDYYkrhE/s200/francisclare4.gif" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5397440559491766370" /></a>I really love the Franciscan saints: Francis, Clare and Anthony... And after this week I'm starting to see that they had a point with their total lack of posessions. Moving to a new house has forced me to come face to face with my pack-rat tendencies, and there was definitely a point this week when I was ready to ditch all my worldly goods, put on my brown habit, and not have to squander another precious moment of life trying to figure out where to put things. <div><br /></div><div>But now that things are mostly in place, I'm feeling a bit better. That being said, I'm feeling highly motivated to simplify things and figure a few more visits to Goodwill or St. Vincent de Paul will be added to the ones already made. How did we accumulate so much "stuff"? Yes, some of it comes with the territory of having a big family, but still, I can only blame that reality up to a point. Well, that and Amazon (my main temptation for book gluttony). </div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 238); -webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "><img src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjn4R4tCcLAZHulr3v19TNoFOzCqJHUptTHf-1moMT_nhcQdzm1mzSgzNZclYkEEBlh4zpk2ntPysRy39vRG1mutkp0OnJBi06miieA634zjwnoBTdOOuMlpdnuj1_ddLZaoGCx-SwK-Ic/s200/StAnthonyPadua-HolyPic.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5397441743144941682" style="float: right; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 10px; cursor: pointer; width: 178px; height: 200px; " /></span><div>Even now, with the boxes all out of the house (well, all but two of them) I can still <i>almost</i> see how St Anthony could walk away from his Abbey and all the books there. <i>Almost</i>, but not quite. Surrounded by books, and kids and mild clutter, I realize that total simplicity is not in my grasp - but it's been a good week to step back and realize how quickly "things" can overtake the precious hours and days. Hmm, maybe St Bonaventure (a Franciscan and a scholar) might have some insight on finding balance. Maybe I should get some of his books. Or, maybe not. </div>Janethttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17983198916040154408noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1610983955691160219.post-29702688215416288342009-10-12T20:51:00.002-04:002009-10-12T20:55:58.258-04:00Said goodbye to a dear friend...<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEizhyphenhyphenT3tUMmurjZ73AMxgQcidn1IL-E348uNyqryq2gZiTSSQ9yypoK9wQygJHC8FoOF22rX0EFOLiXKdIQcENbqDEG1oP_z3GFR9IebX-6e8UYiZzKuc9DowNWO3TY5843PJ1NKTib0Jg/s1600-h/DSC_1525.JPG"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 213px; height: 320px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEizhyphenhyphenT3tUMmurjZ73AMxgQcidn1IL-E348uNyqryq2gZiTSSQ9yypoK9wQygJHC8FoOF22rX0EFOLiXKdIQcENbqDEG1oP_z3GFR9IebX-6e8UYiZzKuc9DowNWO3TY5843PJ1NKTib0Jg/s320/DSC_1525.JPG" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5391881189536626546" /></a><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: center;">Pixie will be sadly missed. Some curmudgeonly theologians say dogs don't go to Heaven, but I beg to differ with that opinion. I figure Pixie is even now acting as God's guard dog; and with her on duty, St. Michael can probably occasionally take an afternoon off. Nothing will get past her unnoticed. </div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div>Janethttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17983198916040154408noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1610983955691160219.post-28663865733032285942009-10-04T19:39:00.015-04:002009-10-04T22:14:29.324-04:00My ears are still ringing...<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgApr8vbralEEYV1jciHRN9-1wJxT19LBSxR-bEcwfw7MIi7OddG6H0-ruhniF8YCMvVHn6cYg5ErKIg2Pdd8uKcyENm5CX0mYWrbM2fR9ypqvK_rSORe9bCjvAJbYbxmfldm31pu-AJhE/s1600-h/jeremycamp.jpg"></a><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: center;">... But it was worth it!</div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: center;">Saturday night, we piled in the car and headed to the Centre (the theatre/convention center downtown) to catch a concert.</div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: center;"><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjO_Jt_IP_fNlt-oiYpPiIVoYhigMg_0NAYkoZLTQVCyrldFnByJl3qLjTqojsb1ExbJ-dN5Mii_LwcvAWRtDVC2RtIW8sbGjEdn7XFvi1zLcOCXcLaWwCY-uzAeCNdISFkbFlHOjdFRRQ/s1600-h/atTheCentre.jpg" style="text-decoration: none;"><img src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjO_Jt_IP_fNlt-oiYpPiIVoYhigMg_0NAYkoZLTQVCyrldFnByJl3qLjTqojsb1ExbJ-dN5Mii_LwcvAWRtDVC2RtIW8sbGjEdn7XFvi1zLcOCXcLaWwCY-uzAeCNdISFkbFlHOjdFRRQ/s320/atTheCentre.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5388897376132182626" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 240px; height: 320px; " /></a></div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><div><br /><div style="text-align: center;">The evening started with a great accoustic set by Bebo Norman. He had another really talented musician (Gabe Scott, I think) with him, who was amazing on the hammer dulcimer. It would have been worth the price of admission for that set alone.</div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: center;"><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi_2TTuHhH5zWqWtudy9EabVv-auaLR-jrSKXAloy8ERYZ6quWfNpb6wWnDMIqbqpit6aITdm3G5WCJUlVvpo6F7R3gzvbSKWqsqgPz8ltFz-aHv03FIGgXQYeCRZZfVc8ENMqxoovujL4/s1600-h/BeboNorman.jpg"><img src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi_2TTuHhH5zWqWtudy9EabVv-auaLR-jrSKXAloy8ERYZ6quWfNpb6wWnDMIqbqpit6aITdm3G5WCJUlVvpo6F7R3gzvbSKWqsqgPz8ltFz-aHv03FIGgXQYeCRZZfVc8ENMqxoovujL4/s320/BeboNorman.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5388897661791243410" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 215px; height: 320px; " /></a><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjO_Jt_IP_fNlt-oiYpPiIVoYhigMg_0NAYkoZLTQVCyrldFnByJl3qLjTqojsb1ExbJ-dN5Mii_LwcvAWRtDVC2RtIW8sbGjEdn7XFvi1zLcOCXcLaWwCY-uzAeCNdISFkbFlHOjdFRRQ/s1600-h/atTheCentre.jpg"></a></div><div style="text-align: center;">Then the pace (and the volume!) picked up a bit with Natalie Grant. The girls loved her music and the stories she told. Very dynamic and very passionate about her faith.</div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: center;"><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg5A-atb4rEtU7Cg8bGQ8e71jyqzrDS67-VIizo4-Mlfv3ylkJWA9-qXoCfdAR7x2YyE-9K58VXwhQHfNsYH6PsnnYf-du2R1aWfHSsrHIjUwmOAEw7YcwvKl_WptMdxa5BnMMpFxr6uLA/s1600-h/NatalieGrant.jpg"><img src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg5A-atb4rEtU7Cg8bGQ8e71jyqzrDS67-VIizo4-Mlfv3ylkJWA9-qXoCfdAR7x2YyE-9K58VXwhQHfNsYH6PsnnYf-du2R1aWfHSsrHIjUwmOAEw7YcwvKl_WptMdxa5BnMMpFxr6uLA/s320/NatalieGrant.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5388898332081167778" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 227px; height: 320px; " /></a><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi_2TTuHhH5zWqWtudy9EabVv-auaLR-jrSKXAloy8ERYZ6quWfNpb6wWnDMIqbqpit6aITdm3G5WCJUlVvpo6F7R3gzvbSKWqsqgPz8ltFz-aHv03FIGgXQYeCRZZfVc8ENMqxoovujL4/s1600-h/BeboNorman.jpg"></a></div><div style="text-align: center;">The last set really ramped up the energy, the sound level, and the lights. Jeremy Camp was fantastic. How Sean managed to fall asleep for the last 20 minutes is beyond me - it was quite a show (and lived up to the Tour's title: <i>"Louder Than Before"</i>), but if you're a tired little boy, apparently sleep can triumph over anything. </div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: center;"><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgApr8vbralEEYV1jciHRN9-1wJxT19LBSxR-bEcwfw7MIi7OddG6H0-ruhniF8YCMvVHn6cYg5ErKIg2Pdd8uKcyENm5CX0mYWrbM2fR9ypqvK_rSORe9bCjvAJbYbxmfldm31pu-AJhE/s1600-h/jeremycamp.jpg"><img src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgApr8vbralEEYV1jciHRN9-1wJxT19LBSxR-bEcwfw7MIi7OddG6H0-ruhniF8YCMvVHn6cYg5ErKIg2Pdd8uKcyENm5CX0mYWrbM2fR9ypqvK_rSORe9bCjvAJbYbxmfldm31pu-AJhE/s320/jeremycamp.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5388899263421853970" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 259px; height: 320px; " /></a><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg5A-atb4rEtU7Cg8bGQ8e71jyqzrDS67-VIizo4-Mlfv3ylkJWA9-qXoCfdAR7x2YyE-9K58VXwhQHfNsYH6PsnnYf-du2R1aWfHSsrHIjUwmOAEw7YcwvKl_WptMdxa5BnMMpFxr6uLA/s1600-h/NatalieGrant.jpg"></a></div><div style="text-align: center;">Great music, and a lot of inspiration - wish we could go again.</div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: center;">-----</div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: center;">Afterwards we headed home to enjoy yue bing (<a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mooncake">Moon Cakes</a> - no, not related in any way to Moon Pies!) because it was Moon Festival in China.</div></div>Janethttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17983198916040154408noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1610983955691160219.post-85728436447700934332009-09-28T22:44:00.002-04:002009-09-28T23:32:00.366-04:00I think I'm going to like it here...It's been a few weeks since we picked up and moved, and as with any move, it has been interesting to find what things you take for granted in your life. Things like changing from driving almost entirely on tree lined county roads (the kind that make you forget how densely populated NJ is) to driving on roads that seem impossibly wide and brightly lit. I have nicely re-adjusted to a full view of the sky, and gorgeous sunsets. <div><br /></div><div>And I am shifting gears, realizing that I'm just a bit further south than I've ever lived before, so that there are subtle cultural differences, along with the obvious ones. Obvious differences include the essentials of ordering iced tea - if you want it plain, you have to request "unsweet", otherwise, you're getting it sweet, except they don't call it "sweet" they just call it tea. I recall having a discussion about this with a friend from Alabama once; so apparently southern Indiana is definitely "southern". The fact that we are still mainly wearing summer clothes at the end of September should have been clue enough that it is "southern' here, but the tea thing totally clinched it.<div><br /></div><div>We are at that point in a move where you start wondering "what have we done", and where you get hit full force with the fatigue that comes after several weeks of having nothing in life being habitual or mechanical. Everything requires thought, from figuring out where things are in the grocery, to managing without a large percentage of your clothes and cookware, to having every interaction be with a stranger (which for an introvert like me, is a huge energy drain). <div><br /></div><div>So, I was sitting today watching the martial arts class my kids are taking in the homeschool co-op (which meets about 3 min away from our apartment). I hadn't really wanted to go. Which is not to say that I wasn't delighted to find this co-op, and even more delighted at how welcoming everyone was. It was just that I was tired, and really didn't feel like walking into yet another "new" situation. Which was silly of me.</div><div><br /></div><div>While the kids were letting off steam on the mats, I found myself joining in conversations ranging from discussing the merits of the local Asian markets, the best way to cook squid, to the duck that had been in residence at one of the markets (it had unexpectedly hatched from an egg that was part of a shipment. The owner named it "Lucky" as in "you're lucky we didn't sell your egg to someone before you hatched".) As the class went on,conversation drifted to other topics: software to support collaborative projects and file sharing, to 4H clubs, and career development. And I got the scoop on the local ballet studios, too. </div><div><br /></div><div>I'm looking forward to heading back next week. As are the kids. It'll take awhile to feel connected but each little step brings us that much closer.</div><div><br /></div><div><div><br /></div></div></div></div>Janethttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17983198916040154408noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1610983955691160219.post-29118297053595922182009-09-23T23:50:00.003-04:002009-09-23T23:56:58.133-04:00I was fine until Item #3...<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgJsRut3NEzQLBR6xNgxXQi49TKLoWmeKp04GKZ8UqluqfcoCJjfpxI2KJtGXI7GFhPXcvhbk9AJKu48MXIPZIPNwIhq9qF9Ex61r25mCgx2ylArFP2wKXJg553ZznE_y8U10SQHZd8iEc/s1600-h/Cairn-Terrier.jpg"><img style="float:right; margin:0 0 10px 10px;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 169px; height: 200px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgJsRut3NEzQLBR6xNgxXQi49TKLoWmeKp04GKZ8UqluqfcoCJjfpxI2KJtGXI7GFhPXcvhbk9AJKu48MXIPZIPNwIhq9qF9Ex61r25mCgx2ylArFP2wKXJg553ZznE_y8U10SQHZd8iEc/s200/Cairn-Terrier.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5384877689782985842" /></a><br />My youngest was thinking today about his birthday (still several months away). He said, "Mom, for my birthday I would like":<div><ul><li>"an outfit with cargo pants that looks good on me" (makes sense to me - wouldn't want one that looks bad!)</li><li>"a 'good guys' lego set" (not sure how I know if the lego people are 'good guys' guess that requires that I consult with his brothers)</li></ul><div><br /></div><div>then, after a bit of a pause...</div><div><br /></div><div><ul><li>"and..... a cairn terrier."</li></ul><div>Hope he's good with two out of three ;-)</div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div></div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div></div>Janethttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17983198916040154408noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1610983955691160219.post-3897072504627364112009-09-11T08:48:00.004-04:002009-09-16T14:10:17.276-04:00It's the little things that matter...<div><span class="Apple-style-span" style=" -webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 2px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 2px; font-family:Times;font-size:medium;"><i>Human felicity is produced not as much by great pieces of good fortune that seldom happen as by little advantages that occur every day. -- Benjamin Franklin</i></span></div><div><br /></div>We woke up the other day with everyone at low ebb. The exhaustion of cleaning and packing and farewells (not to mention 841 miles of togetherness in car) had worn off and it felt like life had just hit the brakes bringing everything to painfully sudden stop. <div><br /></div><div>Seven people and two dogs in a three bedroom second floor apartment is cozy at best. When you have kids who have spent the past 3 months running outside into the woods or climbing the rocks or playing on the swing set (endless supply of neighbor kids included), being cramped up without most of their toys and books, and no yard, no neighbor kids is a recipe for discouragement. And outings like "let's go look at more houses" or "time to go to Target to get some cleaning supplies" just don't really stir the imagination in the same way that "let's go hike at Jockey Hollow and then get cider and donuts at Wightman's Farms" would do. So I had a houseful of kids in a funk.</div><div><br /></div><div>But little things can make a big difference. </div><div><br /></div><div>In this case it was the public library which, providentially, is an easy 5 minute walk from our apartment. We stepped in the front door and YP simply stared for a moment: "The entry is bigger than our whole library in NJ!" She was right. </div><div><br /></div><div>And then we walked in further and saw beautiful new library - brightly lit with huge windows and leading to the children's section there was a huge stained glass wall - all of a forest scene with all sorts of animals. Beautiful. To complete the scene, there was a little wooden footbridge going over illuminated glass floor tiles (for a river) into a children's section with comfy reading areas, a play area, and of course plenty of books. Not to mention a number of lively, happy children. Then we went over to the Teen section - even my most reluctant reader found books she liked. She also observed, "Mom, there are so many computers here!" She was right there were also two story windows letting in natural light, all sorts of comfortable chairs and desks, tables set up for chess or checkers, and a "wall of water" - a soothing place to sit next to and read. </div><div><br /></div><div>After we checked out our books we went to the outside seating area and took the walking path around the little pond right next to the Library. All were smiling by the end of that little excursion and pleased to realize how easy it will be to return whenever we like.</div><div><br /></div><div>Later in the day, after we picked up Kevin from school, we went over to the apartment swimming pool for a bit of welcome play time. Lots of laughing and silliness there.</div><div><br /></div><div>A trip to the library, a quick splash in the pool - little things that matter. Especially, when you have just walked away from your well loved old home and good friends, and into a small apartment for an uncertain stretch of time before you can really start to re-create normal. And a good reminder to the mom of the family, that every day is composed of the little moments, and that even before we moved, that was what really made up life. So we are trying to use our moment well. And trying to appreciate little things just a little more: making a pan of brownies, playing a game of Uno or Clue, laughing together over an old episode of "Get Smart". Little things can either cheer the heart, or drag it down. </div><div><br /></div><div>Makes me think of discussions in my Bible study about Mother Theresa's words about not doing great things, but doing little things with great love. Just like it is the little things that make happy family days, so it is little things that show love for God and bring a smile to His face. A welcome and timely reminder for me during these busy days.</div>Janethttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17983198916040154408noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1610983955691160219.post-38895474766682231942009-09-08T07:25:00.001-04:002009-09-16T16:43:21.996-04:00DeparturesOur oldest is off to college. Anyone who knows me well would expect me to have been waxing sentimental at his departure. But life had other plans - being in the middle of moving halfway across the country has a way of reducing life to practicalities rather than sentimentalities.<div><br /></div><div>I was fully ready to indulge in memories of the little boy who would pull the pans out of the kitchen cupboard and climb inside it as his "rocket ship" (and that was one skinny little cupboard; of course he was one skinny little boy). And the boy who would put on his "Jim Craig hat" (The Man from Snowy River) and chase imaginary horses around the back yard. The former little boy was seen, the last couple of nights before he left, tucked in bed at night reading the same series of books he'd read endlessly about 10 years earlier (The Great Brain books by Fitzgerald). But I was swamped with details to manage for the move - but not so may details that I didn't have time to appreciate those evenings before he took off for new adventures.</div><div><br /></div><div>And I would normally be expected to dissolve into tears of sentiment and nostalgia at the thought of his last evening at home being spent with his younger brother along with M and P, the first two friends he made when we moved to that house almost 9 years before. Those same two boys came by again at 6:45 the next morning, and they were the ones to help him grab his bags and walk him out to the car and say goodbye. They could not have done anything more perfect. These two boys (now young men, much taller than I am) who spent hours playing in my yard, climbing the rock wall, and eating brownies; and in more recent years, were over playing basketball and x box, were a lifeline for my oldest in the first year after we moved in. And now they were here to say goodbye. </div><div><br /></div><div>It was not just the goodbye of friends who will meet again at Christmas break. Just before the boys came by to see our oldest off, my son had to take a walk that I know very well - the walk of someone about to leave for school, who is also leaving their childhood home for the very last time. I took that same walk some 28 years ago - and I still remember every step of it. Having your family move at the same time you start school is a profound jolt. For me it worked very well - going off to school took the edge off the move, and I found myself pushed out of natural shyness as I formed a new home at the university. I'm hoping and praying that our oldest finds the same. </div><div><br /></div><div>And the two young men, M and P who came by that morning are like extra sons who I loved watching grow up. And they were like sons to me one more time: two weeks later, they came by again, the night before the rest of the family was leaving, and they stayed and helped clean house until past 11:00. True friends to the very last; I always hoped that our home felt like another home to them, that they were always welcome - late or early, covered with mud, just as theywere. They made me feel that that was true by being there on that last night. </div><div><br /></div><div>That was what made me cry - having two of my "other sons" taking care of us when we really needed it.</div><div><br /></div><div>But still and all, we're in the process of moving - learning our way around, finding a house, church, doctors, sports, and all those other little details. That keeps me busy enough that there's not much time for sentiment. But there is always time to be thankful for some really good years when we had a house full of wonderful neighbor kids. </div><div><br /></div><div>The last few days were full of goodbyes from M and P and the many other kids who have been part of our lives. That was a good reminder that while the house we left had some irritations that drove the parents crazy, for the kids it's not the perfect house, or lot that matters, in fact imperfection makes things a lot more welcoming. It is knowing that you will always be welcome whenever you drop by that matters.</div><div><br /></div><div>So maybe I am taking a moment here to be a little sentimental, and hoping that old friends will feel welcome any time in our new home. But I'm also thinking that we need to be sure that our new house doesn't feel too perfect, and that folks know that they are always welcome, just as they are.</div>Janethttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17983198916040154408noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1610983955691160219.post-17789940724609460692009-07-06T06:20:00.002-04:002009-07-10T23:47:50.841-04:00I'm Awake - very awake...I was going to write a post about our picnic, last week, at a favorite State Park (on an small island, with views of heron and water lilies - very story-bookish) but my topic changed when I woke up a bit before 5:30 this morning and was thinking: "What is that smell? It smells like... something burning... (sniff, sniff) ... definitely like something burning". I woke my husband (not always an easy feat) and he was good enough to not tell his wife-with-the-<span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_0">oversensitive</span>-nose to go back to sleep. <div><br /></div><div> We got up and started walking through the house: nothing on the second floor, the first, the basement; but there was still the undeniable smell of something like burning plastic in the stairwell. I walked back upstairs, checked a couple of the kids rooms; there was a strong, harsh smell coming in through the windows, so I called downstairs to my husband that it must be something outside. He went out; I did one more pass through the house then stepped out on the porch to see smoke coming out the back door of the garage (our garage is semi-detached - connected to the house by a breezeway) as Michael was saying "I found it." <div><br /></div><div>"It" was a bag of paper towels he had used when he was working on staining the deck yesterday. We're so accustomed to working with latex and acrylics that it never occurred to us to read the part on the label that said "dispose of rags in a container filled with water or spontaneous combustion may occur".</div><div><br /></div><div>We were stupid - stupid to not use our basic (geek) common sense when dealing with a volatile organic chemical. We were lucky - lucky that the bag of rags was on a concrete floor, not near anything else; lucky that the back door to the garage was open so that the smoke drifted up to the open windows so that we smelled it before a full fledged fire had started (which could have spread across to our kids rooms before we even knew what happened); lucky that we woke up when we did. </div><div><br /></div><div>I'm inclined to think that we were a bit more than just "lucky". Before I went to bed last night, I did one last walk through the house to make sure that everything was shut down and closed up, and for some reason the thought of a house fire briefly crossed my mind. I tucked in, prayed my rosary, but even afterward felt the need to just say a few more prayers of <span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_1">thanksgiving</span> for God's goodness, and praying for my family, for their protection. </div><div><br /></div><div> Lucky - probably. Blessed - definitely. And very, very wide awake.</div></div>Janethttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17983198916040154408noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1610983955691160219.post-80357705014500524962009-06-12T09:33:00.003-04:002009-06-16T12:50:54.784-04:00qu na li?"Qu na li?" (literally "going where?") was one of the first questions I got from our daughter Sofi - she was almost 12, and just arrived in our home for the first time. Her oldest brother was heading out the door, and she wanted to know - where was he going?<div><br /></div><div>And for three short syllables, it really says a mouthful. "Going where?" It could be work or school, or off to play. To the store to get ice cream, or to the dentist for a filling On an adventure to the nearby woods, or a trip halfway around the world. It could be just out to the garden to pull a couple of weeds and see what seedling the chipmunks and bunnies have left intact. And yes, it can be the existential question - of future plans and callings, or of our ultimate heavenly (we pray) destination. And that's important, too. But in the summer time it's a question that full of possibilities and excitement and just plain fun. </div><div><br /></div><div>I'm looking forward to the days ahead and all the possible answers to that question (even the slightly stunning answers, like in August when our oldest will be answering it with "off to college!"). </div><div><br /></div><div>So, where are you going? </div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:x-small;">(today I'm off to my friend Maggie's to learn how to make wontons - mmmm!)</span></div>Janethttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17983198916040154408noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1610983955691160219.post-9424350753735279592009-05-21T21:10:00.004-04:002009-06-16T12:51:46.063-04:00Leaders, lieutenants and domestiques...<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhnwO-ahos2PVhwDNHVYbCk1dXycFBSrQ6bNVwiwGLXIUjRhMxcI1PCIwKTrfo8d4_bkMrJvkGlGMbDbLrKsvZC-K1Lrl3LVgji_UBk-F9So4joO2OH2bu4PW3jQQ4-Iqc1Yyu61Ydu0xw/s1600-h/TourDeFrance_2005_07_09.jpg"><img style="float:left; margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 200px; height: 160px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhnwO-ahos2PVhwDNHVYbCk1dXycFBSrQ6bNVwiwGLXIUjRhMxcI1PCIwKTrfo8d4_bkMrJvkGlGMbDbLrKsvZC-K1Lrl3LVgji_UBk-F9So4joO2OH2bu4PW3jQQ4-Iqc1Yyu61Ydu0xw/s200/TourDeFrance_2005_07_09.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5338818578081445538" /></a><br />I love bike races, especially stage races. Ever since I first heard about the Tour de France in my frehsman French class, more years ago than I'd like to admit, I've been fascinated with the sheer endurance it takes to ride 2200 miles in three weeks. Grinding up endless mountains, then descending on those winding roads at speeds around 70 mph takes a level of athleticism that I can barely imagine.<div><br /></div><div>But what really draws me to the sport is more than the sheer guts of the cyclists (and the amazing scenery), it's how much the success of any rider depends on his team. Despite appearances, stage racing is not an individual sport. On the days you see a cyclist breakaway from the peleton (the main group) and ride on his own over a punishing course, gaining time on the competition, the heroics are not individual. He had the "legs" to do that break because his team had been protecting him, keeping him safe, pushing themselves to provide him a slip-stream so his effort was less on the days before. Teammates spend themselves helping the leader along in the early miles of the break, giving up their own chances of glory so another rider could win. </div><div><br /></div><div>In cycling teams there are leaders, lieutenants and domestiques (this last being a french term for servants, maids....) The domestiques grab the feed bags available at designated points along the route (you don't race 120 miles with just the water bottle on your bike). They keep their leader safe at the front of the peleton and work to chase down any challenges or breakaways. The lieutenants, also called super-domestiques, are often the ones who work with the leader to build a successful break in a mountain stage - climbing for as long as their legs can take them, making it easier on the leader. </div><div><br /></div><div>Stage racing has good lessons for life - you don't look at the one-day goal, you work for the long game; if you can have some fun (a stage win) along the way, great, but don't lose site of the big picture. And even when one team member seems to get the glory, it only happens because the whole team is strong - good leaders remember that, just as good domestiques remember that the team only wins if they are grabbing those feed bags, and working a strong pace-line. Life in a big family is a lot like that. Ups and downs, easy days, hard days, rest days, mountain stages... but we pull together and look at the longer goals, not just who wins today, and the end we achieve the seemingly impossible - climbing our own <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Alpe_d'Huez">Alpe d'Huez</a>.</div><div><br /></div><div>With cable tv and live streaming on the internet, its alot easier to follow cycling than it was 15-20 years ago. We'll watch a recap of today's Giro d'Italia stage tonight (note to self: some mountain roads in Italy are terrifyingly narrow!). Then we'll have a few weeks before the Tour starts to debate the merits of this year's Tour de France teams (and comparing the riders of today with the greats of the past). And then, come July, once again we'll watch in amazement as the miles roll by, showing the physical and mental toughness of these riders, and of the undeniable power sacrificing individual glory for a greater goal. As a mom, whose role can often feel like a domsetique, it's a good reminder that even the little tasks are not unimportant.</div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div>Janethttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17983198916040154408noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1610983955691160219.post-30511986389044736102009-05-20T22:39:00.006-04:002009-05-20T23:03:08.106-04:00I'm no St. Therese<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEji9B1uKKs_uPt3a4DVaZaVGyjsWFEJZqXQPNTyfRap21547kIjX9W9pqRCJY_UGhs0EIITAsVsNkNB-ZFUJq0Us8CD9Z_vVbCsWEAu-juGZtg7yTSGVOCfWY4zScRDeKjZvDsFcM6oP1g/s1600-h/St-Therese.jpg"><img style="float:right; margin:0 0 10px 10px;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 114px; height: 154px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEji9B1uKKs_uPt3a4DVaZaVGyjsWFEJZqXQPNTyfRap21547kIjX9W9pqRCJY_UGhs0EIITAsVsNkNB-ZFUJq0Us8CD9Z_vVbCsWEAu-juGZtg7yTSGVOCfWY4zScRDeKjZvDsFcM6oP1g/s200/St-Therese.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5338103826420156210" /></a><br /><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">Sometimes you measure the success of a day by what did not happen. </span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">Yesterday:<br /></span></div><div><div><ul><li><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">the refrigerator was no longer pouring water and ice all over the kitchen floor</span></li><li style="text-align: left;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">I did not burn down the kitchen when I forgot I'd left the tea kettle on and the water had all boiled off</span></li><li><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">I did not get electrocuted when the microwave shorted out</span></li></ul><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">Now, St. Therese would probably give thanks for all this, or at the very least have prayerfully offered up any frustrations she might have had. But I'm sitting here engaging in stress-eating a plate of cookies. And not even virtuous, home made cookies; I'm eating Newman-O's. (Yum!) So, in the unlikely event there was ever any doubt, let the record show: I'm no St. Therese.</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"><br /></span></div><div><p style="margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px; font: 12.0px Helvetica"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"><br /></span></p></div><div><p style="margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px; font: 12.0px Helvetica"><br /></p></div></div></div>Janethttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17983198916040154408noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1610983955691160219.post-55309037852141208052009-05-20T10:38:00.009-04:002009-07-06T07:13:07.435-04:00What's in a name...<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;">My iTunes were happily running on "shuffle" while I tried to come up with a blog name, then one of my favorite songs came on - about a couple walking along the shore, then hearing the music from an open window, dancing together. (Lennie Gallant - "The Open Window") I've always liked that song because I love that image of open windows. When you take a walk in the spring or summer, you walk by houses and for a moment you hear the snippets of the real lives of the people inside - laughter, quarrels, piano practice, stereos... And if you're inside the open window, you still hear the rest of the world - children outside playing (inventing outrageous rules for whatever game they are creating!), sounds of yard work and carpentry, dogs barking...</span><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;">Open windows give a snippet of real life - not the nice, neat "Disney-ized" life you'd get if you were invited over. Open windows don't reduce life to clean floors, and tidy living rooms. It's the good, the bad, the trivial - -the things that really make up our lives. That's why I like blogs. They're like open windows.</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;">Oh, and yes, you're right, the blog name and the blog URL don't match; its a reference to why I'm finally doing a blog... </span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;">I decided to start blogging earlier this year. I was on an airplane flying back up from Atlanta, having just gone to the funeral of a childhood friend, Scotte Hodel - my "extra big brother". Scotte had kept a lot of us old hometown friends close not just with him, but with each other, simply because of his weekly blogs and (pre-blog) family newsletters. It made me realize just how much closeness and friendship comes from knowing the little ordinary things that mark people's lives. I still read </span><a href="http://homepage.mac.com/hodelas/tar/"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;">Scotte's blog</span></a><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;"> because it makes me still feel like he's there; I just wish I could have a few more conversations with him. His post count on the blog ended at 999 - I sometimes wonder, what would his 1000th post be if he could send it from Heaven. It might be a really bad pun, some tech advice, an amazing insight of faith, or just a word about the latest goings on at home. Whatever it would be about it would be worth reading. </span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;">Janet</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;"><br /></span></div><div><br /></div>Janethttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17983198916040154408noreply@blogger.com2